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How to Wear a Suit without a Tie

Paramount to wearing a suit without a tie is a dress shirt collar that sits impeccably. This article explains how to keep it stiff, upright, and symmetrical.

A man slipping a suit coat over a dress shirt that has a perfectly symmetrical collar and placket.Source: Pexels

When actors and models do it, the collar sits symmetrically and perfectly. When you do it, it looks like the aftermath of ripping off your tie after a day at the office. One side of the placket buckles and the collar disappears behind the lapel.

You think it’s because you’ve opened the second button, so you do it up again and settle for a more fastened-up look. When symmetry still evades you, you put it down to the wrong shirt.

But dress shirts are not rigged for tie-less wear; it’s the tie that keeps everything in place when coupled with lapels. Even stiffer weaves like heavy twill or royal oxford aren’t immune to collar collapse.

What Is the Placket?

The placket is the double layer of fabric down the front of the shirt that holds the buttons and buttonholes.

How to Rig Your Shirt for a Suit Sans Tie

But you don’t have to resign yourself to a turtleneck. The trick is to add the rigging that allows the collar to stand up against the weight of a suit coat.

Shirt Collar Supports

Insert a collar support under your shirt collar. Made of rigid plastic, these reinforce the collar band, keeping it above the lapel.

There are two basic types. The majority of brands are size-adjustable, with Slick Collar being the most well-known. The Collar Shaper version is lighter by design, but is not adjustable and must be ordered by size.

This is the first rigging product you should invest in. Raising the collar band usually ensures placket symmetry, making it the only item you need.

Plastic under collar supports (left) and adhesive dots, wig tape, and strips of fashion tape (right).Source: The Neat and Tidy Man
Plastic under collar supports (left). Adhesive dots, wig tape, and strips of fashion tape (right).

Adhesive Dots and Double-Sided Tape

If the placket remains asymmetrical despite an under collar support, the second button is probably too low.

A double-sided adhesive dot or a piece of tape placed just above the third button usually solves this. It holds the fabric in place while the shirt stays open just enough to appear elegantly relaxed.

Adhesive dots are elastic, fabric-friendly, and transparent. As such, they resist movement, leave no residue, and are invisible.

Alternatives to dots are fashion and wig tape, but these lack elasticity and may not stick as well. They also need to be cut to size, making them less convenient.

Placket Stays

Placket stays by Million Dollar Collar are a permanent solution consisting of plastic rods with a nylon hook. Installing them means opening and closing the top of the placket and adding a couple of stitches to keep the stays in place.

They allow you to open the second button without having to use an adhesive method. Because a placket can hang lopsidedly with or without a suit coat, they’re useful for all button-downs and polo shirts.

In fact, they’re so good at stabilizing the placket that some shirt-makers install them during the manufacturing process.

But positioning the stays incorrectly can lead to puckering. If the shirt is expensive enough to make it worthwhile, ask a tailor to do it for you.

Magnetic collar stays (left) and a stay partially inserted into a stay slot (right).Source: The Neat and Tidy Man
Magnetic collar stays (left) and a stay partially inserted into a stay slot (right).

Magnetic Collar Stays

Many mass-market dress shirts—the type most of us wear daily—have sewn-in or fixed collar stays. These are made from heat-resistant plastic and prevent the collar points from curling.

More upmarket shirts have open collar stay pockets or slots, allowing you to insert your own stays according to preference.

When wearing a suit without a tie, choose magnetic stays. These anchor the collar neatly inside the lapels without the need for a button-down collar or invisible buttons and buttonholes installed behind the collar points.

Magnetic stays usually come as a set of various lengths. In case you already own steel stays without magnets, you can buy them separately. Simply attach them to the inside of the shirt behind the collar points.

If your collar stays are fixed, attach adhesive dots to the back of your collar points and stick them to your shirt. Alternatively, ask a tailor to create a small opening so that you can replace your stays. Or do it yourself, as described below.

How to Replace Fixed Collar Stays

Supplies Needed

  • A seam ripper or nail scissors
  • Tweezers (optional)
  • A needle and thread for reinforcing
  • Magnetic collar stays

Step-by-Step Instructions

  1. Turn the shirt collar upside down and feel for the stay.
  2. With your seam ripper or nail scissors, cut a slit of about 4 mm at the top end of the stay, which is positioned closest to the collar band. Be sure not to cut through to the front-facing side of the collar.
  3. Gently pinch the stay through the fabric from the point toward the slit until it pokes out.
  4. Extract the stay either with your fingers or tweezers.
  5. Sew a few quick loops (or a bar tack) at the top and bottom of the slit. This prevents fraying or tearing when you insert and extract your new stays. Don’t worry if your sewing is unsightly; nobody is likely to see it.
  6. Slide in your magnetic stays.

Laundry Starch

Laundry starch stiffens fabric so that it appears crisp after pressing—but not to the extent that it can reinforce a placket and collar band.

Even if it could make a substantial difference, it wouldn’t be for long; starch softens with body heat and humidity.

Wearing a Suit Sans Tie with Aplomb

Depending on the occasion, you don’t have to wear a tie with your sleek, dark suit, but you should wear a dress shirt. It’s the only garment that visually stands up to a suit’s tailored design.

But without a tie, your belt becomes the visual anchor that holds the outfit together. Make sure it’s of a reasonable quality and matches your shoes.

For further enhancement, add a good wristwatch or cufflinks and maybe a silk pocket square.

Alternatives to a Dress Shirt

You might be able to pull off a turtleneck as long as it’s dark, smooth, and tight-fitting around the neck and torso. But it’s actually more suitable for blazers and sport coats, especially if you’re wearing dark blue jeans or chinos.

T-shirts and polos look great with light summer suits and blazers in cotton or linen, but never with tailored designs.


You can’t simply leave off your tie and expect your shirt collar to sit perfectly within your lapels. You have to replace it with reinforcement and rigging that are discreet and designed for movement. Done properly, it should make you feel as stylishly relaxed as you look.

© 2026 J. Richardson

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